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Divorce forms service iDivorceForms.com (IDF) knows that it can be quite difficult to keep calm during a divorce especially when tensions are high. However if one plans on going the do-it-yourself route as many of IDF’s clients do there is a way to keep the divorce on track to a successful low-conflict conclusion. Here’s what the company recommends.
Step Away If The Tension Is Escalating.
IDF urges all of its clients to step away from a difficult situation and take time to recalibrate their approach to arguing whenever tensions are high. “Generally the first moment things start to get personal that’s when you should step away and take time to de-escalate things” a company representative stated. “You may not be able to ultimately decide the matter to your liking but you’ll only make matters worse if you start playing the blame game.”
Tackle Tension With A Different Perspective.
IDF knows that when couples are filling out their divorce papers there is a definite urge to lash out and look at the tension as a “you-versus-me” fight. However this is the wrong perspective. “Instead of thinking ‘How can this situation best serve me?’ try asking yourself ‘What’s the easiest way to bring this down a notch or two without conceding my core demands’” the rep said. “Remember: you may think you deserve 99 percent of everything but that isn’t a realistic viewpoint when it comes to DIY divorce and it’s not helpful to any negotiation or compromise. A judge won’t buy it either.”
Weigh The Pros And The Cons Together.
IDF acknowledges that it can be difficult to do anything together when you’re a couple going through divorce; nevertheless it’s important to try this one step together. Explains the rep: “By pros and cons I mean the pros and cons of doing the divorce yourself versus hiring a couple of lawyers to slug it out like rock ‘em-sock ‘em robots in court. While you may think you get more of what you deserve with a good lawyer keep in mind your spouse will think the same way and from there anything you think you might have gained from hiring an attorney could be eaten up in legal fees. If you and your spouse understand it isn’t working and you both want out sit down and go over the pros and cons of every point of contention before taking your divorce to the next more expensive level.”
iDivorceForms.com provides affordable uncontested divorce solutions for couples in agreement regarding their divorce plans. Clients seeking this method benefit from the assistance of affordable rates and dedicated case managers who work to ensure accuracy each step of the way.
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