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Uncontested divorce service iDivorceForms.com (IDF) knows that not all cases are possible through collaboration. When couples are constantly at odds and cannot be in the same room together without heavy tension they probably aren’t good candidates. But there are ways to improve one’s chances of qualification and that has led the company to share their latest tip sheet. Here’s what they recommend.
Tip One: Understand That It’s Not About Winning.
Most couples who decide to file divorce papers generally need an attorney because they cannot let go of the idea that there are winners and losers in a divorce. “Not so” explains a company representative. “If the judge overseeing your case is doing his job you’ll both feel like you lost. However you can turn that way of thinking on its head if you resolve to work together in a spirit of compromise from the very beginning. If you give a little to get a little and you do it together then you’ll both come out feeling like winners.”
Tip Two: Keep Telling Yourself ‘It’s Okay To Walk Away.’
IDF acknowledges that even when one is filing divorce forms on their own tensions can arise.
“You both may think you’re mature enough to work through the tension but that’s usually the beginning of the end for the collaborative process” the rep said. “Instead of working in such a manner you need to instead be willing to walk away and cool your engines when things get too heated. Don’t try to push through for a final decision or compromise on anything while your emotions are running hot.”
Tip Three: Remind Yourself Why Succeeding Is So Important.
Finally IDF admits that the motivation can vary for different people. Still it’s essential to rehash it at every corner and stay focused on it. “If you have children together then perhaps your goal is to stay civil and work out your problems together in a way that doesn’t place burden on them” the rep explained. “If you feel like you’re starting to slip remind yourself or better yet say it together. ‘We want this to go smoothly for them.’ If there are no kids involved you can let the ability to move on with life and find your own personal happiness guide you. Just make sure that your goal is never to hurt anyone but to move forward. Do this and you’ll be well on your way to the perfect collaborative divorce.”
iDivorceForms.com provides affordable divorce solutions for couples in agreement regarding their divorce plans. Clients seeking this method benefit from the assistance of affordable rates and dedicated case managers who work to ensure accuracy each step of the way.
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